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Compassionate anxiety counselling to help you feel calmer, more confident and more like yourself.
Living with anxiety can be exhausting. It can leave you overthinking conversations, worrying about things that haven’t happened, struggling to switch off at night, or feeling as though you’re constantly waiting for something to go wrong.
For some people, anxiety is there every day. For others, it shows up in specific situations—before a presentation, during social events, starting a new job, or whenever life feels uncertain. However it affects you, anxiety can make your world feel smaller than it needs to be.
I offer face-to-face counselling in Cheshire as well as online counselling across the UK, so you can choose the setting that feels most comfortable and accessible for you. Whether we meet in person or online, you’ll find a warm, confidential and non-judgemental space where you can talk openly and begin to understand what’s keeping anxiety going.
If you feel ready to take the next step, you’re very welcome to get in touch for an initial conversation. It’s an opportunity to talk about what has brought you to counselling, what you’re hoping for from the process, and whether working together feels like the right fit for you.
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Does This Sound Familiar?
Anxiety doesn’t have to control your life.
Anxiety can affect your thoughts, emotions, body and behaviour.
You may experience:
- Constant overthinking or worrying
- Feeling on edge or unable to relax
- Racing heart, tight chest or physical tension
- Difficulty sleeping
- Avoiding situations because they feel overwhelming
- Fear of being judged or getting things wrong
- Panic attacks
- Perfectionism and people-pleasing
- Self-doubt and imposter syndrome
- Feeling stuck despite knowing “there’s nothing to worry about”
Whatever you’re experiencing, you don’t have to manage it alone.
My Own experience of Anxiety
Alongside my professional training, I also bring lived experience.
I’ve experienced social anxiety, performance anxiety and imposter syndrome. I know what it’s like to replay conversations long after they’ve finished, to question whether you’re good enough, or to feel that everyone else seems more capable and confident.
While your story will be different from mine, I understand how convincing anxiety can be and how lonely it sometimes feels. Therapy isn’t about pretending anxiety disappears overnight – it’s about learning a different relationship with it, so it no longer dictates the choices you make.
My aim is to offer a space where you feel understood, accepted and supported without judgement.
About Anxiety Counselling
How Anxiety Counselling can help.
Every person experiences anxiety differently, so I tailor therapy to your individual needs.
Together we might explore:
- Understanding why anxiety developed
- Recognising the patterns that keep anxiety going
- Managing physical symptoms of anxiety
- Reducing avoidance gradually and safely
- Building confidence in everyday situations
- Developing self-compassion instead of self-criticism
- Working through perfectionism and imposter syndrome
- Learning practical techniques you can use between sessions
Rather than trying to eliminate every anxious thought, we’ll focus on helping you respond differently so anxiety has less influence over your life.
Support for anxiety
There are many different forms of anxiety, and we shape the support around you.
General anxiety can feel like your mind is always switched on. You may find yourself worrying about work, relationships, your health, family, finances, or things that haven’t even happened yet. Often, once one worry fades, another quickly takes its place.
You might notice yourself:
- Overthinking everyday decisions
- Expecting the worst-case scenario
- Feeling constantly on edge or restless
- Struggling to relax or switch off
- Finding it difficult to sleep because your mind won’t stop racing
- Seeking reassurance from others
- Feeling physically tense, tired or overwhelmed
For some people, these symptoms may be part of Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), while for others they arise during particularly stressful periods of life. Whatever your experience, persistent worry can be draining and make it difficult to enjoy the present moment.
How it works
In counselling, we’ll work together to understand what fuels your anxiety and the patterns that keep it going. We’ll develop practical strategies to help you respond differently to anxious thoughts, calm your nervous system, and build confidence in your ability to cope with uncertainty.
My aim isn’t to tell you to “stop worrying” – because if it were that simple, you would have done it already. Instead, I’ll help you develop a different relationship with anxiety, so it no longer has the same hold over your life.
the DARE Response, created by Barry McDonagh
The DARE Approach, to Anxiety.
Many people spend years fighting anxiety, trying to distract themselves or make anxious feelings disappear. Unfortunately, that struggle often keeps the cycle going.
The DARE approach isn’t about forcing yourself to feel calm. It’s about reducing the fear of anxiety itself so it gradually loses its power. It offers a different path:
Defuse
Recognise anxious thoughts without believing every one of them.
Allow
Stop battling the anxious feelings and allow them to be present without adding more fear.
Run Towards
Gently lean into uncomfortable sensations rather than avoiding them, helping your brain learn they aren’t dangerous.
Engage
Return your attention to the present moment and continue living your life, even if anxiety is still there.
If it feels like a good fit for you, we can use the DARE principles alongside other therapeutic approaches to create strategies that suit your individual needs
Other forms of anxiety
Support for social anxiety.
Social anxiety is much more than being shy.
It can mean worrying about what people think of you, avoiding conversations, feeling self-conscious, overanalysing interactions afterwards or turning down opportunities because they feel overwhelming.
Having experienced social anxiety myself, I understand how limiting it can become. Therapy can help you build confidence, challenge self-critical thoughts and begin to feel more comfortable being yourself around others.
Support for performance anxiety.
Performance anxiety doesn’t only affect public speakers or performers.
It can show up before interviews, exams, presentations, important meetings, sporting events or any situation where you feel under pressure.
Together we’ll explore what sits beneath those fears, develop practical coping strategies and build confidence so you can perform without anxiety taking over.
Understanding imposter syndrome.
Do you ever feel like you’re only one mistake away from being “found out”?
Imposter syndrome can affect successful, capable people from every walk of life. It often brings self-doubt, perfectionism and the feeling that your achievements are down to luck rather than ability.
Because I’ve experienced imposter syndrome myself, I know how convincing those thoughts can feel. Therapy can help you develop a more realistic, compassionate view of yourself and begin trusting your own abilities.
Options
Flexible ways of working,
to suit your lifestyle and preferences.
Face-to-face counselling in Cheshire offering a calm, private space in Crewe or Nantwich, where we can work together in person.
If travelling isn’t practical, or you simply feel more comfortable at home, I also provide secure online counselling throughout the UK. Online therapy is an effective option for many people and means you can access support wherever you’re based.
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Take the first step
Start with a quiet conversation.
Reaching out for counselling can feel daunting, particularly when anxiety is already telling you to keep everything to yourself.
Whether you’re experiencing general anxiety, social anxiety, performance anxiety or imposter syndrome, you don’t have to navigate it on your own.
If you’re looking for anxiety counselling in Cheshire or online counselling anywhere in the UK, I’d be delighted to support you. Together we can help you understand your anxiety, build confidence and create lasting change – at a pace that feels right for you.
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